Making love for the first time is not something easy, especially if you are someone who has very little experience when it comes to sex.
Be it making love for the first time during your wedding night or with a virgin girl, there are things you should take note in order to make the session a memorable one for the both of you.
One very common problem that you will face when making love for the first time is premature ejaculation. The reason why you will find it hard to control your orgasm is that of your inexperience in sex. When you don’t have sex often, it is not unusual for you to last less than 2 minutes during full intercourse.
However, if you are at your age is somewhat older, let say about 30 – 40 years old, you stand a higher chance to suffer from premature ejaculation due to age.
Ejaculating too early during lovemaking will leave your partner unsatisfied and a bad first-time experience. Here are some tips to help you have a memorable experience when making love for the first time:
Tip One: If you are making love to a virgin girl, assure her that you will stop if she wants to. Since it is the first time she is having sex, is common for her to feel nervous. Your job is to make sure that she stays relax so that she can enjoy her first time.
Tip Two: Take initiative. Don’t wait for your partner to guide you what to do. A man should take initiative and be dominant in bed. Women love their man to lead them during lovemaking. A dominant man is a great turn-on for women.
Tip Three: Engage in prolonged foreplay. Foreplay is a very important step to great lovemaking. Take your time to undress her and admire her naked body. Stimulate her erogenous zones such as breasts, neck, inner thighs, earlobes and clitoris.
Tip Four: Don’t try anything funny or spectacular. This is not the time to explore all kinds of kama sutra positions. Keep things simple – just do the missionary position.
Tip Five: Try to last as long as possible. You don’t want to disappoint her when making love for the first time. During intercourse, distract your mind and don’t think about how long you can last. When you feel the urge to ejaculate, rotate your hips. Wait for the urge to subsides before thrusting again.
Making love for the first time can be a memorable experience if you follow the tips I shared with you above. If you are looking for more tips to last longer in bed, check out the bonus tip below:
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