In a relationship or otherwise we always face situations when a guy forces himself on us and we are unable to tell him that we are not really interested. Many other times we feel reluctant to tell him to back off in the face of hurting his feeling. We all have been at a receiving end of this unwanted male attention and to cope with it is no joke. While telling someone that you are not into him is difficult and needs confidence, it is always better to be upfront and honest about your feelings in order to not give wings to his feelings towards you.
If you are also in a fix wondering about how you can tell NO to a guy, here are 5 ways to tell a guy you are not interested in him
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Just Friendzone them
If the other person is too much insisting and involved in you but the feelings are not mutual, just have a casual chat with him and tell him that, however, spending time with him is fun, you don’t feel the chemistry as anything more than friendship.
Be Blunt and Honest
Listen, I just want to be honest with you. You’re a great person and everything, but I just don’t think this is going to work. I’m sorry. It is important to be honest and give them closure.
Tell him you chose Career over Love
Make him understand that your career tops when it comes to priorities. Tell him that you want to focus on your career right now and doesn’t want to get into a relationship.
You’re probably better-off with someone else
Okay, this line should be used when none of the above tips work. Women use this many times and rather than blaming the guy, they just take it on themselves that you deserve better. This maintains their male ego and your problem is solved.
Everyone girl’s safe word- I’m not into men
While honesty is the best policy, sometimes guys don’t understand the meaning of a NO. Talk about signs and they go numb. So in those cases, you can always say that you are not into men and see their behavior changing. It’s a given that they won’t be looking at you in the same way as before.
Will every man accept these rejections peacefully? Not really, but this is the best shot you can have.
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